The Connection Between Friendship and Fatherhood
As the 21st century continues to push steady change in American culture, men are navigating shifts in their roles and expectations in the areas of...
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•Jun 10, 2020
As the 21st century continues to push steady change in American culture, men are navigating shifts in their roles and expectations in the areas of family, friends, career and more. In light of Father’s Day, we want to celebrate dads around the world by showcasing key findings from Five Essentials to Engage Today’s Men, a recent study on men’s ministry in partnership with BetterMan.
We know from multiple studies that men are having children later than past generations, and perceptions of gender roles within fatherhood are also shifting; in fact, 78 percent of practicing Christian men tell Barna they think it’s okay for fathers to be stay-at-home parents. As fathers in the Church map their expedition into the uncharted future of manhood, Five Essentials to Engage Today’s Men outlines key conversations churches should have about how men connect with their purpose, with others and with their faith.
Below, let’s look at some data points that offer insight into men’s relationships with their family and friends and how these connections play a role in their satisfaction.
For the most part, fathers in the Church are of middle age; nearly half of practicing Christian men ages 35 to 54 (47%) have children in their household, compared to just one-third of Christian men under 35 (37%) and few who are 55 and older (5%). Christian fathers largely report satisfaction in their relationship to their children; half (49%) say they are very satisfied while another three in 10 (30%) say they’re mostly satisfied.
In several dimensions, this study points to the ways that a father’s other relationships may impact their ties with their own children. Importantly, Christian men who report a positive relationship with their father growing up are considerably more likely to say they are very satisfied in their relationship to their own child (53%, compared to 42% of those whose relationship with their father was not positive).
